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“21st Century Disputes. Caveman Brains. How do we bridge the gap?”

 

Portrait-Geoff DruckerYou’ve seen it before, and you’ll see it again:
• Someone digs in his heels and adamantly refuses to admit he’s wrong, even though the evidence is clearly against him.
• Someone devotes far more resources to trying to defeat someone than she can possibly recover, even if she wins.
• Someone gets into a heated disagreement with a relative or co-worker about how to address a situation even though he’s not sure what he really wants.
• Someone fiercely resists a change that seems destined to make her better off.
What’s going on? Our minds evolved to deal with differences in the small, simple, homogeneous communities our ancestors occupied thousands of years ago. So they are easily confused and overwhelmed by the complexities of life. We cannot alter how our minds work, but we can learn to overcome their limitations.

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A is for Asshole: The Grownup’s ABCs of Conflict Resolution by Victoria Pynchon

 

Enjoy the summer! Victoria Pynchon’s new book is an adult primer on the difficult art of resolving, transforming or transcending conflict in your home, your workplace, your community, your state, your nation and your world. Victoria is an attorney who traded in her boxing gloves for the softer but no less difficult skills of helping lawyers and their business clients resolve their commercial disputes. Now she brings the wisdom of the courtroom and the mediation room to everyday conflicts and the difficult people in your life. Victoria mediates commercial disputes with ADR Services, Inc. in Century City, arbitrates business disputes for the American Arbitration Association and teaches women when and how to negotiate with her business partner Lisa Gates at SheNegotiates.com.

Join us as we talk with Victoria Pynchon, attorney-mediator and arbitrator who spent the first 25 years of her legal career litigating and trying business disputes for her clients. She now mediates and arbitrates those same disputes, helping business people resolve their conflicts as effectively and expeditiously as possible. Her book, A is for Asshole, the Grownups’ ABCs of Conflict Resolution is an adult primer on resolving conflict and negotiating resolution.

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How to SOLVE Your Conflicts

 

We often long to solve conflict and the question becomes how. On today’s program Eileen Dowse will share her SOLVE™ model as an easy approach for you to work through issues and develop lasting solutions. This process offers techniques for expanding interpersonal communications and building better relationships in the future.

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Conflict as an Unlikely Teacher: Finding the Hidden Gifts

Most of us go about thinking that life happens to us, that conflict is a negative event, and that our reactions are not under our conscious control. In this conversation with Judy Ringer, author, trainer, conflict coach, and Aikido black belt, we’ll discuss how life events, troublesome people, and difficult problems can be gifts that help us strengthen relationships, open communication, and invent life in more purposeful ways. Judy’s book, “Unlikely Teachers” offers stories and practices for turning life’s challenges into life teachers.

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TO BE: Living a Life of Choice

Join us as we speak with international speaker and published author, Barbara Hofmeister, from Germany. We will discuss her book To be or not to be: The Choice is YOURS!

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Learn more about Barbara and her book, To Be Or Not To Be – The Choice Is Yours on her site.

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What Gives Conflict a Bad Name?

Differences and disagreements – we deal with them all the time.  They are conflicts, though we don’t bother to label them as such.  We listen and consider, we build solutions, we problem solve, and then we move on.   Other times, something snaps – and we suddenly find ourselves standing in the middle of an ugly mess, arguing perhaps, or getting out of the room as quickly as possible.  In this segment of the Texas Conflict Coach, we’ll consider what turns a simple disagreement into a conflict, and strategies to keep conflict at the lowest possible level.

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Mediators Beyond Borders

Mediators Beyond Borders International (MBB) is a not-for-profit corporation which brings together mediators and allied professionals to volunteer worldwide to collaborate on building conflict resolution capacity in underserved areas to make local peace-building more effective and sustainable.  MBB also advocates to advance the use of mediation to resolve public policy disputes and other conflicts.

In building sustainable conflict resolution capacity for a more peace able world, MBB works in partnership with local organizations and leaders in each area where it has a project. It generally serves groups located in areas where there are difficulties as a result of war, major civil conflict, or significant natural disaster.  MBBs core mission is to help these local organizations and leaders build effective and sustainable conflict resolution systems.  Our member volunteers offer their time, treasure and talent to accomplish this mission.

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Improvisation, Jazz and Blues in Conflict Resolution

Neil Denny photoWhat are Neil Denny’s Conversational Riffs and how they can help us to keep communicating through conflict?  We explore how the things that we say shape and contribute to the conflict and what other choices we have when responding to arguments or complaints.  This program will give you easy to implement tools to enable you to manage conflict in your personal or professional life.

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